My mom and dad just came over for dinner. As always, talks were made, words were used.
I had a real trigger when my dad said something along the lines of “You are not going to make it.”
Which is something that occurred to me in the past few days.
That is not MY REALITY. That is HIS reality.
MY REALITY is easy: I AM going to make it.
And these are two very different things.
I have had a lot of plans, growing up. Many of which were fantasies in my head, that never became reality. I did not feel supported, and that held me back.
My parent did support me, and I love them for all the good things they did. I’ve just had low self-esteem in the past, and that is why some messages we’re not received as they were intended.
I know my dad means well. I have never seen or heard of him doing something with ill intent. Ever.
Fast forward a few years, when I did start my own company. Apparently successful, at some point making € 22.000,- per month for about 6 months a row.
Why did my customers pay me that amount of money? Because I delivered that much VALUE to them.
I do deliver that amount of value.
And now, it’s time to re-think the future.
Am I going to play games? Am I going to need rest? At times, yes. But not all the time.
Am I going to take advice on financial matters from TV, school, my family? People who have a decent live, but not living their dreams?
To that I say: HELL NO.
The past 18 months I have looked for teachers and mentors that make at least 50.000 per month, consistently. I have watched what they do, how they do it … and how they teach others!
Apparently… teaching others HOW TO ACCOMPLISH THEIR DREAMS is something that a lot of people are interested in.
And that is something that I can do for you.
I am here for you if you need personal guidance.
Yet I have also learned that to get a reward, you need to provide value first. (Those 22k months didn’t just fall out of the sky, they were preceded by 2 years of hard hard hard work.)
So, here is a summary of the VALUE I LOVE TO SHARE with YOU.
These are just some of the steps needed to propel yourself FORWARD. I believe these are some of the basics decisions that you need to make, to get the most out your own time.
1. DECIDE FOR YOURSELF TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE
Become a leader.
No one else is going to determine what reality you live in. Your reality is limited only by two things: The material YOU (your body) and the materials that surround you now (home, city, work, school, family, etc)
The other thing that defines your reality is your personal experience. Do you worry about the past or the future, or do you FANTASIZE about it. Whichever choice you make: that is what you will encounter more of.
2. INVEST IN YOURSELF
Whichever materials you invest in, they don’t last. Everything material needs maintenance.
However, if you invest in yourself, you can carry that knowledge and experience with you FOR LIFE. No maintenance required.
It is worthwhile to invest in the best education out there (ask me about it).
Or start for free on Youtube.
Some of the best inspiration out there is for free.
* Napoleon Hill
* Ari Maccabi
* Darren Little
* Tony Robbins
* Oprah Winfrey
* Many, many, many more.
* It’s like a religion, except they don’t call themselves a religion…
3. INVEST IN TIME SAVERS
Poor people do things themselves, so they save money.
Rich people save time, by buying products and services that make their lives easier.
With time, you can make more money. Without time, money can’t make money.
IF YOU WANT TO SAVE TIME, send me a message. I know A LOT about services that are available FOR FREE on the internet, or for very low costs. MAKE YOUR LIFE EASIER.
Also, one of the dreams I have, is that many of these time savers are available for free, forever. However, I need to build that platform, and that will probably take some time. HELP ME get the experience I need, by providing services FOR YOU.
4. LEARN THE TRUTH ABOUT ABUNDANCE
The main driving force of the universe is neutral. Nature doesn’t care about A-Bombs, Nature will survive anything that happens to it.
The second driving force of the Universe is ABUNDANCE.
From the moment we are born till the moment we die, everybody is granted the same rights: TO LIVE IN ABUNDANCE.
However, If you don’t take control of your FAITH, then what will take control of YOU?
YOU are in the CENTER of YOUR UNIVERSE. This is true wherever and whenever you go.
In traditional times: Your senses give you a perception, you look at that perception, and then you respond in a certain way.
Take control of your response. You ONLY need to do this when a decision is to be made. The other times you can run on AUTO-PILOT.
Decide to go for the better future. Then go on auto-pilot. And rest when it is needed. Sometimes it’s OKAY to PROCRASTINATE. (There’s even science backing this statement up.)
That’s all folks. Until next time, I love to talk to you … IF YOU DECIDE TO TAKE LEADERSHIP OF YOUR OWN LIFE.
Once last thing: We do not make people dependent on us, we make people GROW so they can become INDEPENDENT themselves. INDEPENDENT LEADERS create MORE independent leaders.